Don’t Call yourself a Slay Queen anymore.

When adults used the word ‘Slaying‘ or ‘I slay“, it generally irks me because I consider it a teenage slang . SO seeing all these old people posting pictures talking about how they slayed the look and calling themselves slay queens or slay mama generally made me give them the side-eye, while admiring their ensemble….

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SIDE CHICKS GETTING BOLD.

There are days where I am able to create contents bam bada boom and there are other days where it seems like I will not be able to make my every day target and then an epiphany happens. So, the world has gone crazy. We already know that. Things that used to be taboo or…

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Always the bridesmaid, then the bride and now the Wedding Planner

My sister has always had a connection with wedding. Right from when she was little, she was the one who was always the little bride and she grew older, she become the go to bridesmaid for every body…….and I mean everybody…….. from her friends to random cousins that we have never even met. I wrote…

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The bridesmaid specialist is now the bride

Hello people. Remember I posted an article a lifetime ago about how my sister was always asked to be a bridesmaid and I never was…..almost never was. read that HERE . I am excited to announce that the bridesmaid specialist is now the bride.. hurray. This weekend, a wise wise young guy took another of…

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Continuing the circle of domestic violence

A friend of mine contacted me last week asking for information as how to obtain a divorce in Nigeria. I have not practiced in over 2 years but I dealt with a lot of divorce matters in my time. I was able to tell her what she needed and directed her to a lawyer. I…

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He is attracted to his wife’s best friend. Should he tell his wife?

Hello everyone. I stumbled upon the post on Nairaland, Nigeria’s number one public forum and my favorite pastime. This poster was having a problem and decided to ask for advice from the forum. Really I don’t know how to start this or how it all began, don’t get me wrong I love my wife and…

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The Childless Nigerian Wife

I came across this post from my one of my favourite bloggers and friend Ilsa Aida and it inspired me to write this. Here are a few excerpts That beautiful day arrives. You dance, you are excited, you feel beautiful, finally you have been joined at the hip with the man of your dreams (or…

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The title “Mrs”

Nigerians are obsessed with marriage. It is an unescapable and undeniable fact. As soon as a girl finishes the university(some even before), the questioning begins “Do you have a serious boyfriend?” Why will u bring home a man for us?” As she gets older, relatives start to broach the subject as well. As she nears…

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Weight loss after baby- Dealing with insensitive remarks.

Hey everyone. Its been a while. Beebee turned seven weeks yesterday (They grow up so fast) and I am down an astonishing 13.4kg. Almost 30 pounds in 7 weeks. That is an insane number for me. I wish I could take credit for it and say I have been eating right and exercising, but honestly,…

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My Judgmental Friend ruined one of the best Moments of my Life

Hello everyone. So the The dogs of Al Burhama are back again and even more organized. As I was preparing breakfast for my boss, I noticed another boss(dog) accompanied by two other smaller dogs. They were racing towards something, barking ferociously. Their target turned out to be two other dogs behind a net fence. Obviously…

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