Hello I am Hera (chorus – Hi Hera)…. I am a terrible blogger……. I must have left down a lot of my readers. Who can blame them? My inconsistency is disgraceful…… If there was a blogging association, I will have been expelled and thrown in a dungeon filled with miniature kaijuns (yeah, I just watched…
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60 pounds lighter
Usually, i would go into a long epistle but i will not do that today. I will let the picture speak for itself…… Yes I know…………… I am a bad ass. I am humble enough to admit it.
The Trials of Fatimah- the struggles of an orobo Part 6
Sorry, I had to pause the story for a while. Some wise guy was posting my story on his blog under the title “The fat diaries of kike’ (not a bad title). So I patiently put it on hold so and I cheerfully waited to see what he would post next. His readers were on…
The bridesmaid specialist is now the bride
Hello people. Remember I posted an article a lifetime ago about how my sister was always asked to be a bridesmaid and I never was…..almost never was. read that HERE . I am excited to announce that the bridesmaid specialist is now the bride.. hurray. This weekend, a wise wise young guy took another of…
Continuing the circle of domestic violence
A friend of mine contacted me last week asking for information as how to obtain a divorce in Nigeria. I have not practiced in over 2 years but I dealt with a lot of divorce matters in my time. I was able to tell her what she needed and directed her to a lawyer. I…
He is attracted to his wife’s best friend. Should he tell his wife?
Hello everyone. I stumbled upon the post on Nairaland, Nigeria’s number one public forum and my favorite pastime. This poster was having a problem and decided to ask for advice from the forum. Really I don’t know how to start this or how it all began, don’t get me wrong I love my wife and…
The Childless Nigerian Wife
I came across this post from my one of my favourite bloggers and friend Ilsa Aida and it inspired me to write this. Here are a few excerpts That beautiful day arrives. You dance, you are excited, you feel beautiful, finally you have been joined at the hip with the man of your dreams (or…
The title “Mrs”
Nigerians are obsessed with marriage. It is an unescapable and undeniable fact. As soon as a girl finishes the university(some even before), the questioning begins “Do you have a serious boyfriend?” Why will u bring home a man for us?” As she gets older, relatives start to broach the subject as well. As she nears…
There once was a blogger named Hera
There once was a blogger named Hera. She started with so much fire. She has so much to share with the world Then Life interfered. She carried belle. And the fire simmered. Ideas came and went, never to be typed, lost in the sands of time. She hung in there………barely, making promises after promises and never…
Rant- I am no Super mom!!!
Hello everyone, a few days ago, I wrote a short piece titled ‘I don’t get religion’. While I was extremely careful not to bash any religion, I guess just writing about religion in any light that is not 100 percent positive is controversial (as I feared). While I did get a lot of positive feedbacks,…
